
Hi Folks
As the iCan Tour continues around the UK I am often amazed at what I see. The life of a Motivational Speaker allows me insights I would have otherwise have missed. As well as speaking to adult audiences I often find myself inspiring students within schools. I could not believe what I witnessed recently as I sat waiting to speak to 200 students. They students were getting a pep talk from a member of the Physical Training staff about the Sports Day to take place in the coming weeks. I cant remember exactely what he said but he was urging each of the house teams to pick their best team for each event. He was ranting and raving about how dissapointed he would be at anyone finding themselves on the losing teams.
Now i'm all for encouraging each of us to be the best US that we can be....but what if someone is more talented that us in an event. They will achieve better results than you or I and does that mean we should feel bad about not winning. Maybe we will win at something elese. He really was giving it to them and I couldnt help but thing about my own children and how I want them to grow at school. Its Ok not to Win.......Get over it. Most of us will not win at sports day. I dont think I ever did. And I was terrible at football and was always on the bench. I dont recall Mr Pointer the PT Instructor being dissapointed at me. Its just wasnt my thing. Now get me on a stage speaking in front of 200 of my class mates in the school public speaking event....That I did win. It doesnt mean to say the others who took part were losers (although technically they were).
I received this email from a young person who makes the point perfectly.
Hey! I don't know If you will get this or not but I just wanted to say thank-you for such an inspirational speech at the MIDAS confrence in Harrogate on tuesday. That afternoon I actually took part in the MIDAS speaker competition. I was terrified before but your speech helped my confidence and although I didn't win, I feel like I accomplished something by standing up in front of my pears and speaking on the topic of 'Youth Culture'. I even had the confidence to again put myself forward to speak in another activity the next day! You probably get messages like this all the time from people so I'm sorry if I'm being repetetive! Many thanks again! Liam BraceyYes winning is great and to be encouraged but if we dont win (this time) as long as we gave it our best shot we wont be going far wrong.